You've probably heard of the street artist known as Banksy, whose pieces often appear out of nowhere and feature some kind of cryptic idea. That’s why the latest toxic dating trend is known as Banksying. In short, it’s when one person in a relationship starts withdrawing while pretending all is well – and then breaks it off suddenly. That leaves the other person with that out-of-nowhere feeling. And it gives the Banksy-er the chance to process without direct conflict – the same kind of avoidance that Banksy is famous for.
The solution – regardless of whether you feel like you’re getting Banksyed or might be doing the Banksying – is communication. Tackle issues head on, even if it’s uncomfortable. Don’t drag things out, which is just a waste of both of your time and energy.